Beginners Guide To Sex Toys
So you have decided to give into your desires and explore yourself or spice up your sex life. Sex toys make a great aid for self-discovery and for an enhanced sex life providing a deeper connection between you and your partner. We will go over some popular sex toys and tips below!
Vibrators
As you might have guessed they are sex toys that vibrate ,while being capable of bring about intense stimulation. They come in a variety of sizes, shapes , colours and vibrating patterns/intensity. There are also multiple styles like the classic vibes , realistic , rabbit , G-spot , bullet and wands.
Vibrators are easy to control with a click of a button you can cycle through the different levels of vibrations . The more high tech vibrators can be controlled through an app from your mobile or a remote control.
We recommend starting with something simple like a bullet vibrator . Theses small vibrators are discreet and capable of exhilarating orgasms plus they are fairly cheap so they make a great entry point into sex toys. Another good starting point is a Wand/Massager which is more than ready to give powerful orgasms to all genders.
Clitoral Suction Vibrators
Rapidly growing in popularity are clitoral suckers , used to provide clitoral stimulation. They can be used during solo play and with a partner to enhance your orgasms during those intimate moments.
Dildos
A timeless classic and arguable the most popular sex toy, used by all genders. Dildos provide penetrative pleasure. They come in a large variety of shapes, sizes , styles and colours. Dildos allow you to chose the perfect size with varying lengths and girths but rather start smaller and work your way up.
Dildos come in a realistic aesthetic designed to mimic the real thing and non-realistic in a range of styles and colours. You can choose a dildo with a suction base that can stick on surfaces or flared bases that can be used to be attached to harnesses for pegging.
Anal Toys
Always been curious about exploring the backdoor but unsure of where to start? Anal toys have been growing in popularity especially from rise in butt plug popularity. Which it so happens is a great place to start with for anal toys. Butt plugs help by gentle stretching your anus while giving you a filled feeling and stimulating your internal and external anus nerves. Butt plugs come in normal standard ones , vibrating and inflatable ones . Butt plugs come in varying styles also , there's bejewelled butt plugs for some extra bling , tail plugs and even glow in the dark ones.
Further more there are also anal toys like anal beads which are also great to start anal exploration before moving onto something bigger.
Male Masturbators
Males second best friend the male masturbator. These are the go to for anyone with a penis , play with yourself or your partner could help out. The main toys are strokers and sleeves. Crafted to simulated the real thing but you get to choose the style , shape size and if it vibrates. You could even get one that resembles your favourite adult star.
The most popular being the good old fleshlight simple and easy to use while giving you unbelievable pleasure , you can get fleshlight girls or fleshlight guys depending on what you are into! If you want something a bit more tech savvy you can get automated strokers and blowers plus some of them have a warming feature. Just make sure to keep the water-based lube handy.
Cock Ring
Great for keeping you harder for longer and providing mutual pleasure if you get a vibrating cock ring. Make sure to use lube first and place the cock ring on when you are flaccid and the ring should become tighter as you get harder but not to the point of discomfort. You should feel the difference straight away.
If you get a vibrating cock ring it will also provide pleasure to your partner during penetration. Depending on the kind of cock ring the vibrations can stimulate your balls, your partners clit or anus. Just don't forget the lube
Remote Controlled Toys
An honourable mention for remote control toys. These cover almost almost every category now as tech advances toys become more advanced with remote control apps through mobiles that you can control or your partner from another country can control. It could also just be an ordinary hand held remote that can be used to control your toys.
Final Sex Toy Tips
- Use water-based lube for silicon toys
- Do be sure to keep your toys clean and wash them after every use . Most are okay to be washed with warm soppy water or use toy specific cleaners
- Don't share sex toys but if you have to cover them with a condom, to maintain hygiene
- Communication is key when playing with a partner
- Don't sure too big to quick , rather work up to the size you require.
- Lastly enjoy yourself and your partner!
In conclusion sex toys can greatly enhance sexual pleasure and intimacy, whether used alone or with a partner. It's important to choose toys that are safe, suitable for your needs, and used in a way that ensures comfort and hygiene. Always communicate openly with your partner and prioritize mutual consent and enjoyment.
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